"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the guys who pick up girls in clubs

vonbock

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A guy I know is a cop who works the clubs at nights. He told me who really gets the girls in the clubs. Not DJ's or alpha males but the following:

1. The Bartender - he was saying the bartender gets every girls phone number. They always say "I'll give you a little more of this drink if you go out with me". They know who to get connected to if the girl wants the drugs too.

2. The Bouncer - of course - girls always google him to get in, and they always like flirting with the big guy.

3. The guy with the drugs - enough said?

4. The cop in the club - have you noticed - every girl out there loves messing around with the cop in the club. For some reason, girls just love cops.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rrrrr

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Thank you for the inside info on who REALLY gets the girls in clubs. I guess all those stories I've heard from people (including women) are false.
 

nonchalant

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it's nice to know the cops are working girls when they should be busting criminals
 

PRMoon

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Dear god:rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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napoleon

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NO! It's true! I am a bartender that sells drugs (that I confiscate from criminals during the day) and sometimes I chuck out the guy who makes trouble. And I get all the girls:)
 

napoleon

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OK guys, enough... Let's focus on something time worthy...
 

wayword

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vonbock said:
Not DJ's or alpha males
Helloooo? Those are the MOST alpha males in the club! Those guys have all the control and final say on all matters in there!

Minus the drug dealer...who is more of a Beta provider.
 

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You forgot the most important one, the owner or manager of the club. Smoking fat spliffs in vip =) ... I am 21 and the manager of a club on fridays. I usually get older women 26-31 trying to talk to me, i dunno if its a test for them to see if they still got the skills. But i also get younger ones standing around me and looking back, or dancing infront of me for attention.
 
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