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the guys who pick up girls in clubs

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A guy I know is a cop who works the clubs at nights. He told me who really gets the girls in the clubs. Not DJ's or alpha males but the following:

1. The Bartender - he was saying the bartender gets every girls phone number. They always say "I'll give you a little more of this drink if you go out with me". They know who to get connected to if the girl wants the drugs too.

2. The Bouncer - of course - girls always google him to get in, and they always like flirting with the big guy.

3. The guy with the drugs - enough said?

4. The cop in the club - have you noticed - every girl out there loves messing around with the cop in the club. For some reason, girls just love cops.
 

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Thank you for the inside info on who REALLY gets the girls in clubs. I guess all those stories I've heard from people (including women) are false.
 
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it's nice to know the cops are working girls when they should be busting criminals
 
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Dear god:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NO! It's true! I am a bartender that sells drugs (that I confiscate from criminals during the day) and sometimes I chuck out the guy who makes trouble. And I get all the girls:)
 
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OK guys, enough... Let's focus on something time worthy...
 
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vonbock said:
Not DJ's or alpha males
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Helloooo? Those are the MOST alpha males in the club! Those guys have all the control and final say on all matters in there!

Minus the drug dealer...who is more of a Beta provider.
 
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You forgot the most important one, the owner or manager of the club. Smoking fat spliffs in vip =) ... I am 21 and the manager of a club on fridays. I usually get older women 26-31 trying to talk to me, i dunno if its a test for them to see if they still got the skills. But i also get younger ones standing around me and looking back, or dancing infront of me for attention.
 
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