"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the guys who pick up girls in clubs

vonbock

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A guy I know is a cop who works the clubs at nights. He told me who really gets the girls in the clubs. Not DJ's or alpha males but the following:

1. The Bartender - he was saying the bartender gets every girls phone number. They always say "I'll give you a little more of this drink if you go out with me". They know who to get connected to if the girl wants the drugs too.

2. The Bouncer - of course - girls always google him to get in, and they always like flirting with the big guy.

3. The guy with the drugs - enough said?

4. The cop in the club - have you noticed - every girl out there loves messing around with the cop in the club. For some reason, girls just love cops.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rrrrr

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Thank you for the inside info on who REALLY gets the girls in clubs. I guess all those stories I've heard from people (including women) are false.
 

nonchalant

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it's nice to know the cops are working girls when they should be busting criminals
 

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Dear god:rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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napoleon

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NO! It's true! I am a bartender that sells drugs (that I confiscate from criminals during the day) and sometimes I chuck out the guy who makes trouble. And I get all the girls:)
 

napoleon

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OK guys, enough... Let's focus on something time worthy...
 

wayword

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vonbock said:
Not DJ's or alpha males
Helloooo? Those are the MOST alpha males in the club! Those guys have all the control and final say on all matters in there!

Minus the drug dealer...who is more of a Beta provider.
 

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You forgot the most important one, the owner or manager of the club. Smoking fat spliffs in vip =) ... I am 21 and the manager of a club on fridays. I usually get older women 26-31 trying to talk to me, i dunno if its a test for them to see if they still got the skills. But i also get younger ones standing around me and looking back, or dancing infront of me for attention.
 
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