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True, whenever I am at peace and enjoying myself I see girls getting drawn towards me.
Hell recently, I said fu*k it I'm just gonna go sit alone at a resto to enjoy myself solo, and a promoter girl came to me and I got her contact etc.
So yeah being you is best, stop trying so hard. At the end it's about socialising, being out there.
Being in your focus and purpose will attract everyone, not just women. Doing your own thing and grinding away is exceptionally attractive. You also gain a presence about yourself. That said, it doesn't mean you shouldn't implement game. Too many guys think if they ONLY focus on themselves the ladies will come. You still often need to initiate.
 

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It depends where your fat is stored but generally the bulky guy is perceived as better than the weak one with low bf and abs.

Also 17-18% bodyfat altough far from optimal is still within the decent range if you are muscular and well shaped.
yeah key is just getting to turn that into muscle.. though you need to overeat probably to get to that
 

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I don’t envy men that have to use money, status, or whatever BS factor to get women because they treat them differently than guys they are physically attracted to. These men have to beg for sex and it’s usually pity low effort sex.
 
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the greatest asset you can have to attract women is a well funded bank account
 

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the greatest asset you can have to attract women is a well funded bank account
At the end of the day men are providers. Its always been this way. Women put what you can provide them above looks.
 
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At the end of the day men are providers. Its always been this way. Woman put what you can provide them above looks.
There are primitive cultures where women do most of the labor. They don't amount to much, because male ability is misappropriated towards empty peacocking displays instead of productive effort. The West is heading in that direction.
 

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I don’t envy men that have to use money, status, or whatever BS factor to get women because they treat them differently than guys they are physically attracted to. These men have to beg for sex and it’s usually pity low effort sex.
I don't think that's really true. For women, the line between dependency and desire is very blurry. It's definitely not true of status.
 

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I don't think that's really true. For women, the line between dependency and desire is very blurry. It's definitely not true of status.
I have been on both ends of the spectrum and I can definitely say there's a difference. AMS talks about it a lot too.

Resource Provider Attraction Relationship
- You go on a date with her, and you are just thinking about if she's going to put out afterwards throughout the whole night lol. Regardless, you are paying for the whole date.

High Sexual Attraction Relationship
- You barely make your dinner reservations/date time because she hopped on your dvck as soon as you opened the front door. She surprises you later by paying for the whole date or at least splitting it with you.

Guys on the RPA Relationship are the same dudes that end up in deadbedrooms and tell you sex just naturally dies down over time in relationships/marriages lol.
 

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I have been on both ends of the spectrum and I can definitely say there's a difference. AMS talks about it a lot too.

Resource Provider Attraction Relationship
- You go on a date with her, and you are just thinking about if she's going to put out afterwards throughout the whole night lol. Regardless, you are paying for the whole date.

High Sexual Attraction Relationship
- You barely make your dinner reservations/date time because she hopped on your dvck as soon as you opened the front door. She surprises you later by paying for the whole date or at least splitting it with you.

Guys on the RPA Relationship are the same dudes that end up in deadbedrooms and tell you sex just naturally dies down over time in relationships/marriages lol.
Your theory is based upon one single date. Not over time.
 

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Your theory is based upon one single date. Not over time.
It is not based upon one single date and logically it makes more sense to have more frequent and better sex with someone that you are physically attracted to vs someone you are just with for resources.
 

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It is not based upon one single date and logically it makes more sense to have more frequent and better sex with someone that you are physically attracted to vs someone you are just with for resources.
So after 7 years of banging that girl that hopped on your dihk the minute you opened the front door you are still as excited as you have always been? It never worked that way for me. I'm a hunter.

And what about the womans perspective? Takes two to keep it going. Attraction is less physical for the average woman than most all men.
 

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I mean, probably. It pains me to realize how many missed opportunities I've had due to sheer indifference.
This is a important thing to talk about. Its important to be mentally open to meeting new women, and to be sharp whenever a opportunity presents itself. Its important to really love women. You can be a jacked women hater and get no results whatsoever. Dont say you are a woman hater by the way. Just saying whatever attribute you use to attract women should always be combined with sincere desire, lust and love for women.

And to keep it on topic, I do believe being fit helps a man getting women. By making yourself as feckable as possible you'll be more eager to get naked. Just facts. Remember that whenever you see a woman with a hot body...

I have yet to see a beer belly on a picture of a man on the cover from a woman's novel. Or a dude in a parfum commercial, or any TV show . The type of man women fantasising about is always fit.
 
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So after 7 years of banging that girl that hopped on your dihk the minute you opened the front door you are still as excited as you have always been? It never worked that way for me. I'm a hunter.

And what about the womans perspective? Takes two to keep it going. Attraction is less physical for the average woman than most all men.
What one girl for 7 years? The hunter mindset is completely overblown because every guy settles for the right girl eventually. LEO DiCaprio does a mini settle approach before anyone brings him up. Just like the Mongolian hordes settled amongst the people they conquered. Being a hunter takes work and gets old fast. Attraction means everything to a woman, so idk why you think that too.
 

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This is a important thing to talk about. Its important to be mentally open to meeting new women, and to be sharp whenever a opportunity presents itself. Its important to really love women. You can be a jacked women hater and get no results whatsoever. Dont say you are a woman hater by the way. Just saying whatever attribute you use to attract women should always be combined with sincere desire, lust and love for women.

And to keep it on topic, I do believe being fit helps a man getting women. By making yourself as feckable as possible you'll be more eager to get naked. Just facts. Remember that whenever you see a woman with a hot body...

I have yet to see a beer belly on a picture of a man on the cover from a woman's novel. Or a dude in a parfum commercial, or any TV show . The type of man women fantasising about is always fit.
The best term I've heard for this is to have a "killer instinct" for opportunities.
 

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Resource Provider Attraction Relationship
- You go on a date with her, and you are just thinking about if she's going to put out afterwards throughout the whole night lol. Regardless, you are paying for the whole date.

High Sexual Attraction Relationship
- You barely make your dinner reservations/date time because she hopped on your dvck as soon as you opened the front door. She surprises you later by paying for the whole date or at least splitting it with you.

Guys on the RPA Relationship are the same dudes that end up in deadbedrooms and tell you sex just naturally dies down over time in relationships/marriages lol.
Damn, bro. This is spot on!
 
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I have been on both ends of the spectrum and I can definitely say there's a difference. AMS talks about it a lot too.

Resource Provider Attraction Relationship
- You go on a date with her, and you are just thinking about if she's going to put out afterwards throughout the whole night lol. Regardless, you are paying for the whole date.

High Sexual Attraction Relationship
- You barely make your dinner reservations/date time because she hopped on your dvck as soon as you opened the front door. She surprises you later by paying for the whole date or at least splitting it with you.

Guys on the RPA Relationship are the same dudes that end up in deadbedrooms and tell you sex just naturally dies down over time in relationships/marriages lol.
Perfect explanation, thats exactly the point of the thread, well done!
 

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Women are attracted to a lean, athletic physique. Ya'll ever seen women around male strippers? They go wild. Why you think NBA players are the top choice of IG models or women who are in the top tier of desirability and status. Women are also attracted to very handsome faces. Life isn't fair, some men hit the genetic lottery and some don't. Ya'll seen that dude who's mugshot literally got him famous and a number of lucrative opportunities when he was released? god bless him.

A man can be average in the looks department but have strong masculine sex appeal (confidence, sexual prowess, etc) this is another attraction trigger for women, as well as strong verbal game. These are all things that don't require resources.

Men who lack in the above areas usually need to present beta qualities to have sex with women (money, non sexual companionship, attention, wine and dine, etc.)

In conclusion, being in shape and owning an athletic physique does give men an edge, but this alone won't guarantee success with women.
 

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Women are attracted to a lean, athletic physique. Ya'll ever seen women around male strippers? They go wild. Why you think NBA players are the top choice of IG models or women who are in the top tier of desirability and status. Women are also attracted to very handsome faces. Life isn't fair, some men hit the genetic lottery and some don't. Ya'll seen that dude who's mugshot literally got him famous and a number of lucrative opportunities when he was released? god bless him.

A man can be average in the looks department but have strong masculine sex appeal (confidence, sexual prowess, etc) this is another attraction trigger for women. Having strong verbal game is another factor that can increase his success with women. These are all things that don't require resources.

Men who lack in the above areas usually need to present beta qualities to have sex with women (money, non sexual companionship, attention, wine and dine, etc.)

In conclusion, being in shape and owning an athletic physique plays a major factor, but this alone won't guarantee success with women.
As someone who was lean and fit in his early twenties and still ignored like garbage, I've always been skeptical of lookist explanations. It's the weasely extrovert blowhards that most succeed, as far as I can tell.
 

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As someone who was lean and fit in his early twenties and still ignored like garbage, I've always been skeptical of lookist explanations. It's the weasely extrovert blowhards that most succeed, as far as I can tell.
Nothing wrong with being an extroverted blowhard. Lol. It works.
 
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