"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Great Michael Jordan loses big

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joekerr31 said:
its kind of like one of us banging angelina jolie, giving her a couple of kids, and then divorce her and taking half her net worth.
cough-kfed-cough
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Marriage is a social contract and as the same holds with any contract there is usually one side that is the winner. Divorce law and custody battles are lopsided in favor of females most of the time.

But for most guys working in middle class America marriage has its subtle benefits (I dont agree with them but they do exist). A man who is tied down is looked at as tamed and stable by corporations who are looking for middle management candidates of that nature. Single guys just wont take **** and that is more a liability then an asset for most companies whose bottom line is a couple of extra dollars. I've also been amazed by the number of friends who I thought would be perpetual bachelors get married to take advantage of tax breaks, lower insurance rates, and in general the ability to get just a little bit more money. If you are in business for yourself, or an athlete, then obviously this doesn't matter as is Michaels' case.

Hopefully any guy who gets married after they understand their earning potential realizes the loopholes and puts his money into assets that aren't considered part of the settlement. My guess would be that the half that she took from him was only the visible legal half and he was smart enough to move his money into things that she couldn't grab or at least would benefit him. Since I grew up in Chicago during the Jordan era I can tell you that the divorce was imminent due to his publicized behaviors. I'm surprised that it lasted this long.
 

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heard about this on the news last night, poor bastard
 

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FWIW I have a very good friend who once took his wife back on condition that she (they) write up and sign a nuptial contract. Since they were already married it was a post-nuptial agreement, not a prenup.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Skel said:
heard about this on the news last night, poor bastard
Why are you guys feeling sorry for this guy? He had already married Juanita and it wasn't until a year later when he agreed (in writing) to give half his fortune to her if they divorced. Then she only asked for a third (just 168 mil). Mike came out ahead of the game which he agreed to. Now ask why the heck did he agree to it as opposed to just a set amount or a cap like $20 million instead of a percentage?

Feel sorry for guys like Paul McCartney, Steven Spielberg, Neil Diamond and Harrison Ford. They lost an actual battle but Mike actually agreed to the terms before the divorce. Bad business decision.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Why are you guys feeling sorry for this guy?
Not really feeling sorry for this guy but its kinda mind boggling to see my favourite sport athlete of all time and one of the greatest athlete's in all sports to be shafted like that. I mean yeah he is rich and all but damn he was a young man when he married Juanita and he had the typical AFC love for this woman and he signed the prenup because he thought he probably won't need it.

Cases like this is a reminder to all men to really be careful of whom they marry if they decide to marry it all. Women are all nice and feminine when they come into marriage but if somewhere down the line they lose interest in their men they usually become vicious and masculine and will try to squash their men through the legal system.

He should have befriended Wilt:

Wikipedia said:
In 1991, Chamberlain wrote his second autobiography, A View from Above. There, the lifelong bachelor Chamberlain claimed he had sex with 20,000 women. For this to be true, he would have had to had sex with 1.9 women per day from the age of 15 up until the day of his death, a rate of more than nine women a week. Quickly, he became target for jokes and jibes, and fellow African-American superstar Arthur Ashe was highly critical, blasting Chamberlain for embarrassing black men and fueling prejudices about their sexual behavior. Chamberlain defended himself: “I was just doing what was natural — chasing good-looking ladies, whoever they were and wherever they were available” and pointed out he never started a relationship with a married woman. He is said to have confided in close friends that the claim actually sprung from his refusal to answer the question of a reporter inquiring about his number of sexual conquests, the reporter is said to have exclaimed "C'mon Wilt, how many? 20,000?. To which Wilt sarcastically agreed. [44]
 

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maybe she was actually a good wife...

if i was mike, it wouldn't bother me at all. he is a legend
 

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Create Reality said:
maybe she was actually a good wife...

if i was mike, it wouldn't bother me at all. he is a legend
Oh true, there are definitely women much worse out there, she was there supporting him and his various undertakings. The funny thing is that so many women (don't know if she did or not) say that the types of things that they do for their men could not have a price tag put onto it (primarily raising the children). Then they divorce. All of a sudden that priceless service has a pretty definite price tag!!!
 
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