belividere
Master Don Juan
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cough-kfed-coughjoekerr31 said:its kind of like one of us banging angelina jolie, giving her a couple of kids, and then divorce her and taking half her net worth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
cough-kfed-coughjoekerr31 said:its kind of like one of us banging angelina jolie, giving her a couple of kids, and then divorce her and taking half her net worth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thank you... Not nearly as much but it happens.belividere said:cough-kfed-cough
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why are you guys feeling sorry for this guy? He had already married Juanita and it wasn't until a year later when he agreed (in writing) to give half his fortune to her if they divorced. Then she only asked for a third (just 168 mil). Mike came out ahead of the game which he agreed to. Now ask why the heck did he agree to it as opposed to just a set amount or a cap like $20 million instead of a percentage?Skel said:heard about this on the news last night, poor bastard
Not really feeling sorry for this guy but its kinda mind boggling to see my favourite sport athlete of all time and one of the greatest athlete's in all sports to be shafted like that. I mean yeah he is rich and all but damn he was a young man when he married Juanita and he had the typical AFC love for this woman and he signed the prenup because he thought he probably won't need it.Francisco d'Anconia said:Why are you guys feeling sorry for this guy?
Wikipedia said:In 1991, Chamberlain wrote his second autobiography, A View from Above. There, the lifelong bachelor Chamberlain claimed he had sex with 20,000 women. For this to be true, he would have had to had sex with 1.9 women per day from the age of 15 up until the day of his death, a rate of more than nine women a week. Quickly, he became target for jokes and jibes, and fellow African-American superstar Arthur Ashe was highly critical, blasting Chamberlain for embarrassing black men and fueling prejudices about their sexual behavior. Chamberlain defended himself: “I was just doing what was natural — chasing good-looking ladies, whoever they were and wherever they were available” and pointed out he never started a relationship with a married woman. He is said to have confided in close friends that the claim actually sprung from his refusal to answer the question of a reporter inquiring about his number of sexual conquests, the reporter is said to have exclaimed "C'mon Wilt, how many? 20,000?. To which Wilt sarcastically agreed. [44]
Oh true, there are definitely women much worse out there, she was there supporting him and his various undertakings. The funny thing is that so many women (don't know if she did or not) say that the types of things that they do for their men could not have a price tag put onto it (primarily raising the children). Then they divorce. All of a sudden that priceless service has a pretty definite price tag!!!Create Reality said:maybe she was actually a good wife...
if i was mike, it wouldn't bother me at all. he is a legend