Stagger, just because you aged badly doesn't mean that a lot of guys can't look great in their 30s. I do agree that a lot of guys' appearances deteriorate after their mid 20s but the majority of the American adult population lives a horrible lifestyle. This is why most American adults are overweight and a shockingly high percentage are obese.
The whole reason that guys come to this website is because they don't want to be (presumably) like most guys. Most guys rarely approach. Most guys rarely study the finer details of attracting women. Most guys are content to wait for the right circumstances to present themselves instead of proactively creating them. Most guys don't reach anywhere near their potential.
If you're a 35 year old "average" guy, chances are you've got at least a little bit of a gut. Your bad lifestyle choices are beginning to manifest. You're probably making $35-50k or so. You might live in a respectable apartment/house and drive a decent car. You've probably never seriously attempted to learn about the finer details about Game. You rarely if ever do approaches.
If you're the Mature DJ that we all aspire to be, you spent much of your 20s learning and practicing Game/pickup. You've done thousands of approaches and learned from your experiences. You cultivated your hobbies. You also spent countless hours working out. You ate right. Years of healthy living are clearly visible in your physique and your vitality. You also worked your ass off to establish a great career or to start a business.
But like I said, it's easier to just throw your hands up and say "well, all of this is just bullsh*t.....you're either born with it or not." Making excuses is easier than putting in the work.
The whole reason that guys come to this website is because they don't want to be (presumably) like most guys. Most guys rarely approach. Most guys rarely study the finer details of attracting women. Most guys are content to wait for the right circumstances to present themselves instead of proactively creating them. Most guys don't reach anywhere near their potential.
If you're a 35 year old "average" guy, chances are you've got at least a little bit of a gut. Your bad lifestyle choices are beginning to manifest. You're probably making $35-50k or so. You might live in a respectable apartment/house and drive a decent car. You've probably never seriously attempted to learn about the finer details about Game. You rarely if ever do approaches.
If you're the Mature DJ that we all aspire to be, you spent much of your 20s learning and practicing Game/pickup. You've done thousands of approaches and learned from your experiences. You cultivated your hobbies. You also spent countless hours working out. You ate right. Years of healthy living are clearly visible in your physique and your vitality. You also worked your ass off to establish a great career or to start a business.
But like I said, it's easier to just throw your hands up and say "well, all of this is just bullsh*t.....you're either born with it or not." Making excuses is easier than putting in the work.