"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"The gold"

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Sorry goodn't pick a better topic now :p

But, what my "problem" is, is that I am always worried and feeling down if someone (friends or potential dates) don't show interrest in me, or in the first week they do and then it slows down.

I know, the DJ bible says, "so ****ing what. You're the gold". But that is easier said then done. It keeps flowing in my mind. I don't know how to deal with it.

Should i just make new dates to forget her? Or should i try to fix it and that she will start liking me? Or is it just a waste of time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude, women are odd creatures. The less you try to revive your relationship, the more they are attracted. Its strange, I know.

Best bet is to go out there and still play the game. Get your mind off this one girl.
 
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Yeah, no ****. It doesn't make any sense. There's this one girl I went strong with for a little bit, then she backed up. Well for a little bit, I kept going pushing, and didn't really get a response. Actually, she told me" You're trying too hard." So, I decided to hell with it, deleted her phone number from my phone, and decided not too call her until she called me about three times, which I knew she would, and she eventually did.

Keep her in the back of your head if you want, but go after other girls.
 
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Originally posted by unformed

Keep her in the back of your head if you want, but go after other girls.
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Yeah, but the problem is: when I like a girl, I don't like other girls at that time. I have to figure out a way to not like a girl if i like her, if you know what i mean :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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