"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"The gold"

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Sorry goodn't pick a better topic now :p

But, what my "problem" is, is that I am always worried and feeling down if someone (friends or potential dates) don't show interrest in me, or in the first week they do and then it slows down.

I know, the DJ bible says, "so ****ing what. You're the gold". But that is easier said then done. It keeps flowing in my mind. I don't know how to deal with it.

Should i just make new dates to forget her? Or should i try to fix it and that she will start liking me? Or is it just a waste of time?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, women are odd creatures. The less you try to revive your relationship, the more they are attracted. Its strange, I know.

Best bet is to go out there and still play the game. Get your mind off this one girl.
 
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Yeah, no ****. It doesn't make any sense. There's this one girl I went strong with for a little bit, then she backed up. Well for a little bit, I kept going pushing, and didn't really get a response. Actually, she told me" You're trying too hard." So, I decided to hell with it, deleted her phone number from my phone, and decided not too call her until she called me about three times, which I knew she would, and she eventually did.

Keep her in the back of your head if you want, but go after other girls.
 
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Originally posted by unformed

Keep her in the back of your head if you want, but go after other girls.
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Yeah, but the problem is: when I like a girl, I don't like other girls at that time. I have to figure out a way to not like a girl if i like her, if you know what i mean :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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