"The gold"

[Levrone]

Sorry goodn't pick a better topic now

But, what my "problem" is, is that I am always worried and feeling down if someone (friends or potential dates) don't show interrest in me, or in the first week they do and then it slows down.

I know, the DJ bible says, "so ****ing what. You're the gold". But that is easier said then done. It keeps flowing in my mind. I don't know how to deal with it.

Should i just make new dates to forget her? Or should i try to fix it and that she will start liking me? Or is it just a waste of time?

 

[Luveno]

Dude, women are odd creatures. The less you try to revive your relationship, the more they are attracted. Its strange, I know.

Best bet is to go out there and still play the game. Get your mind off this one girl.

 

[unformed]

Yeah, no ****. It doesn't make any sense. There's this one girl I went strong with for a little bit, then she backed up. Well for a little bit, I kept going pushing, and didn't really get a response. Actually, she told me" You're trying too hard." So, I decided to hell with it, deleted her phone number from my phone, and decided not too call her until she called me about three times, which I knew she would, and she eventually did.

Keep her in the back of your head if you want, but go after other girls.

 

[MacDiddy]

Don't work against the system...

Just get wit the program!!!!

 

[Levrone]

Originally posted by unformed

Keep her in the back of your head if you want, but go after other girls.

Yeah, but the problem is: when I like a girl, I don't like other girls at that time. I have to figure out a way to not like a girl if i like her, if you know what i mean

 

[Giuseppe Notte]

Worrying too much about a girl will make sure that she won't like you. When playing the dating game, never put all your cards on the same table - spread them along to different ones. Part of becoming a real "Man" is having options - settling down is your choice, not the girls'.