"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The girl's best friend is a b****

Lost In the Seas

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Ya, the best friend of the girl i am trying to get is a b****. She's amazingly stuck up on an unbelieveable level, bizzzare, emotionally insane, ugly, a real pain in the ass and one of the few most b***** girls you can ever find, it's a wonder to me how she can be the best friend to the girl im trying to get, who is in everyway opposite to her: fun loving, humorous, carefree, good natured, romantic, active, adventurous etc

The girl and i are exes, but i do know for a fact that she is still a bit interested in me and want things to be back the way they were, and i am to her too. Whenever i try to advance a move her best friend is always there to kill it.

How do get my way around her, note that she hates me and i hate her just as much. Can i do anything at all to destroy the friendship between them? Honestly i dont think they are fit to be good friends.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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joekerr31

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yes, you do need help cuz you are acting like a loser.

your ex is an idiot and has poor taste in friends. this will likely always be the case, so even if you get hte friend out of the way, at some point there will be another b*tch who gets in the way.

b*tch can't stand to see anyone happy, especially the people closest to them. This is a losing battle because even if you get back with your ex, the first argument you have she will turn to her b*tch friend who will fill her head with crap like "see, i told you. hes no good. he doesnt understand you. you can do so much better" blah blah blah.

you want help? here it is...

YOU are chosing to involve yourself in a completely dysfunctional relationship. YOU know that nothing good can come of this, but you aren't man enough right now to walk away. Like a love sick puppy dog you just want someone to buy you from the store window.

Take responsibility for your life and move on from this f*cked up situation.

Right now the fact that your ex has this b*tch friend is attracting you to your ex even more. Cuz you feel the urge to "save" her.

Guess what man, your ex doesn't need you to save her. She's made her choices, and you are an idiot if you try to over turn her choices because YOU know what's in her best interest.

that's bullsh*t and you're wasting your time.

This situation will never ever bring you happiness, so move on. Better things await down the road if you start the journey today, versus wasting your time on this sh*t.

J
 

Mack Bishop

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yes get yourself a new woman
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BackToTheMack

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
Ya, the best friend of the girl i am trying to get is a b****. She's amazingly stuck up on an unbelieveable level, bizzzare, emotionally insane, ugly, a real pain in the ass and one of the few most b***** girls you can ever find, it's a wonder to me how she can be the best friend to the girl im trying to get, who is in everyway opposite to her: fun loving, humorous, carefree, good natured, romantic, active, adventurous etc

The girl and i are exes, but i do know for a fact that she is still a bit interested in me and want things to be back the way they were, and i am to her too. Whenever i try to advance a move her best friend is always there to kill it.

How do get my way around her, note that she hates me and i hate her just as much. Can i do anything at all to destroy the friendship between them? Honestly i dont think they are fit to be good friends.
They make great friends she is pefect for your EX every time your EX is depressed she looks over at her best friend and she is happy again. Why? Because she knows that whatever happens to her whatever shed does in life she is not the worst off person in the world.

This kind of reassurance is what keeps there friendship alive. It may sound ludicrous but what i am saying is right. It’s a friendship of convenience so you should provide her with what the best friend provides WITHOUT demeaning yourself.

It's up to you to Figure out how
 
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