"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The girl's best friend is a b****

Lost In the Seas

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Ya, the best friend of the girl i am trying to get is a b****. She's amazingly stuck up on an unbelieveable level, bizzzare, emotionally insane, ugly, a real pain in the ass and one of the few most b***** girls you can ever find, it's a wonder to me how she can be the best friend to the girl im trying to get, who is in everyway opposite to her: fun loving, humorous, carefree, good natured, romantic, active, adventurous etc

The girl and i are exes, but i do know for a fact that she is still a bit interested in me and want things to be back the way they were, and i am to her too. Whenever i try to advance a move her best friend is always there to kill it.

How do get my way around her, note that she hates me and i hate her just as much. Can i do anything at all to destroy the friendship between them? Honestly i dont think they are fit to be good friends.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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joekerr31

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yes, you do need help cuz you are acting like a loser.

your ex is an idiot and has poor taste in friends. this will likely always be the case, so even if you get hte friend out of the way, at some point there will be another b*tch who gets in the way.

b*tch can't stand to see anyone happy, especially the people closest to them. This is a losing battle because even if you get back with your ex, the first argument you have she will turn to her b*tch friend who will fill her head with crap like "see, i told you. hes no good. he doesnt understand you. you can do so much better" blah blah blah.

you want help? here it is...

YOU are chosing to involve yourself in a completely dysfunctional relationship. YOU know that nothing good can come of this, but you aren't man enough right now to walk away. Like a love sick puppy dog you just want someone to buy you from the store window.

Take responsibility for your life and move on from this f*cked up situation.

Right now the fact that your ex has this b*tch friend is attracting you to your ex even more. Cuz you feel the urge to "save" her.

Guess what man, your ex doesn't need you to save her. She's made her choices, and you are an idiot if you try to over turn her choices because YOU know what's in her best interest.

that's bullsh*t and you're wasting your time.

This situation will never ever bring you happiness, so move on. Better things await down the road if you start the journey today, versus wasting your time on this sh*t.

J
 

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yes get yourself a new woman
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
Ya, the best friend of the girl i am trying to get is a b****. She's amazingly stuck up on an unbelieveable level, bizzzare, emotionally insane, ugly, a real pain in the ass and one of the few most b***** girls you can ever find, it's a wonder to me how she can be the best friend to the girl im trying to get, who is in everyway opposite to her: fun loving, humorous, carefree, good natured, romantic, active, adventurous etc

The girl and i are exes, but i do know for a fact that she is still a bit interested in me and want things to be back the way they were, and i am to her too. Whenever i try to advance a move her best friend is always there to kill it.

How do get my way around her, note that she hates me and i hate her just as much. Can i do anything at all to destroy the friendship between them? Honestly i dont think they are fit to be good friends.
They make great friends she is pefect for your EX every time your EX is depressed she looks over at her best friend and she is happy again. Why? Because she knows that whatever happens to her whatever shed does in life she is not the worst off person in the world.

This kind of reassurance is what keeps there friendship alive. It may sound ludicrous but what i am saying is right. It’s a friendship of convenience so you should provide her with what the best friend provides WITHOUT demeaning yourself.

It's up to you to Figure out how
 
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