"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Girlfriend Question

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ronjohn

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I've been dating a girl for a month or so. We've been on maybe 5 dates. We've kissed, had many good conversations, gone out to dinner, etc. To friends, I say she's my 'girlfriend' in passing, but she's not really my girlfriend. She is a girl I am dating. Yet we both are dating each other exclusively...

So the question is, How many dates are 'required' to ask someone to be your girlfriend? :trouble: I feel that I would like to get more serious with her, but I'm not sure if it's too early.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WaterTiger

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The general consensus of this board is you NEVER ask if she'll be your girlfriend. You wait for HER to bring it up. That way you know she's into you.

There is no "required" number of dates to do anything.
 
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Jaxon

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Don't ask dude, she'll bring it up if she's interested. And quit calling her your girlfriend in passing, that's not helping your cause any. When and if she brings it up, brush it off. When she brings it up the second time, then you can talk about it.
 
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