Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Girlfriend Question

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ronjohn

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I've been dating a girl for a month or so. We've been on maybe 5 dates. We've kissed, had many good conversations, gone out to dinner, etc. To friends, I say she's my 'girlfriend' in passing, but she's not really my girlfriend. She is a girl I am dating. Yet we both are dating each other exclusively...

So the question is, How many dates are 'required' to ask someone to be your girlfriend? :trouble: I feel that I would like to get more serious with her, but I'm not sure if it's too early.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WaterTiger

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The general consensus of this board is you NEVER ask if she'll be your girlfriend. You wait for HER to bring it up. That way you know she's into you.

There is no "required" number of dates to do anything.
 
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Jaxon

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Don't ask dude, she'll bring it up if she's interested. And quit calling her your girlfriend in passing, that's not helping your cause any. When and if she brings it up, brush it off. When she brings it up the second time, then you can talk about it.
 
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