"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Girlfriend Question

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ronjohn

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I've been dating a girl for a month or so. We've been on maybe 5 dates. We've kissed, had many good conversations, gone out to dinner, etc. To friends, I say she's my 'girlfriend' in passing, but she's not really my girlfriend. She is a girl I am dating. Yet we both are dating each other exclusively...

So the question is, How many dates are 'required' to ask someone to be your girlfriend? :trouble: I feel that I would like to get more serious with her, but I'm not sure if it's too early.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WaterTiger

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The general consensus of this board is you NEVER ask if she'll be your girlfriend. You wait for HER to bring it up. That way you know she's into you.

There is no "required" number of dates to do anything.
 
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Jaxon

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Don't ask dude, she'll bring it up if she's interested. And quit calling her your girlfriend in passing, that's not helping your cause any. When and if she brings it up, brush it off. When she brings it up the second time, then you can talk about it.
 
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