The girl my friend (an AFC but not a bad one) likes said this to him 3 times already and she knew he liked her. However she hasn't given him any other signs. The problem is there is another AFC (a pretty bad one) pursuing her and he claimed that he n the girl were going out. What do u guys make of this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The girl says" I'm looking for a boyfriend"
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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It doesn't seem that there is any good connection with that girl to your friend for her to say something like that if she knows he likes him.
Bible_Belt
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she knew he liked her
Then he's an afc, too. He should tell the girl that she and the bigger afc make a cute couple and that guy really, really likes her, they should go out, whatever.
When a woman knows for sure that you like her, you are probably going nowhere.
Then he's an afc, too. He should tell the girl that she and the bigger afc make a cute couple and that guy really, really likes her, they should go out, whatever.
When a woman knows for sure that you like her, you are probably going nowhere.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.