"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The girl says" I'm looking for a boyfriend"

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The girl my friend (an AFC but not a bad one) likes said this to him 3 times already and she knew he liked her. However she hasn't given him any other signs. The problem is there is another AFC (a pretty bad one) pursuing her and he claimed that he n the girl were going out. What do u guys make of this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dont make anything of it because its too generalized.
 

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Do u guys think the girl is interested in my friend or is he in her friendzone already?
 
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It doesn't seem that there is any good connection with that girl to your friend for her to say something like that if she knows he likes him.
 

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she knew he liked her

Then he's an afc, too. He should tell the girl that she and the bigger afc make a cute couple and that guy really, really likes her, they should go out, whatever.

When a woman knows for sure that you like her, you are probably going nowhere.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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