The girl my friend (an AFC but not a bad one) likes said this to him 3 times already and she knew he liked her. However she hasn't given him any other signs. The problem is there is another AFC (a pretty bad one) pursuing her and he claimed that he n the girl were going out. What do u guys make of this?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The girl says" I'm looking for a boyfriend"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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It doesn't seem that there is any good connection with that girl to your friend for her to say something like that if she knows he likes him.
Bible_Belt
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she knew he liked her
Then he's an afc, too. He should tell the girl that she and the bigger afc make a cute couple and that guy really, really likes her, they should go out, whatever.
When a woman knows for sure that you like her, you are probably going nowhere.
Then he's an afc, too. He should tell the girl that she and the bigger afc make a cute couple and that guy really, really likes her, they should go out, whatever.
When a woman knows for sure that you like her, you are probably going nowhere.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.