"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The girl next door

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I'm new to the DJ Discussion Forum but I have been reading the bible and I can't really find a solution to my problem.

I just moved and it is the beggining of summer so school is out. Well I have this really hot girl that lives next door. I am kind of new to the game and I am okay looking but not great Brad Pitt or anything like that. So back to my delimma. I don't know how to approach her and get up to where she is coming over and what ever.

She changes and doesn't close her curtains but she might be accidently doing this so I don't want to act like I have seen her naked if she didn't know about it but if she did I don't want her to think that I am not into having sex with her because I most definitely would.

I know the basics of being a DJ but I see this as a great opportunity and I would like to know what real DJ's think I should do.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dude! I was in ur exact situation a year ago! But that was before I found this site so I completely ruined it by acting AFC.
Treat her like any other girl. i.e. just ask her out.
I am killing myself right now for not discovering this site earlier coz hooking up with ur neighbor gives u SOOO many more opportunities!!!
I really don't think she was intending u see her change.
 
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I am not an AFC but I figure she's not going anywhere so I will be patient. It is my virtue anyway.
 
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wait until she goes outside (yes kind of like spying), and go up and meet her. Then say "hey how would you like to come over ___day____ at about __time__ to hangout/watch a movie/talk/ whatever
 
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Nah, just keep trying to catch her nekkid ass in the window and jerk off to that.

It's the best you can hope for.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Originally posted by fabman
Nah, just keep trying to catch her nekkid ass in the window and jerk off to that.

It's the best you can hope for.
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Absolutely true. I think I will actually ask her to see a movie or something like " do you want to see a movie later when my mom's not home?" She has a pet racoon and sleeps in the same room as her little sister.
 
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watch the movie lol. but on the real, how about just draw her atention sometime when ur both outside. Maybe shoot some hoops or something. Then just go up to her an introduce yourself. If you're new to the town ask her to show you around. Ask her what there is to do for fun around the area. You get the drift...
 
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