"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The girl next door

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I'm new to the DJ Discussion Forum but I have been reading the bible and I can't really find a solution to my problem.

I just moved and it is the beggining of summer so school is out. Well I have this really hot girl that lives next door. I am kind of new to the game and I am okay looking but not great Brad Pitt or anything like that. So back to my delimma. I don't know how to approach her and get up to where she is coming over and what ever.

She changes and doesn't close her curtains but she might be accidently doing this so I don't want to act like I have seen her naked if she didn't know about it but if she did I don't want her to think that I am not into having sex with her because I most definitely would.

I know the basics of being a DJ but I see this as a great opportunity and I would like to know what real DJ's think I should do.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude! I was in ur exact situation a year ago! But that was before I found this site so I completely ruined it by acting AFC.
Treat her like any other girl. i.e. just ask her out.
I am killing myself right now for not discovering this site earlier coz hooking up with ur neighbor gives u SOOO many more opportunities!!!
I really don't think she was intending u see her change.
 
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I am not an AFC but I figure she's not going anywhere so I will be patient. It is my virtue anyway.
 
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wait until she goes outside (yes kind of like spying), and go up and meet her. Then say "hey how would you like to come over ___day____ at about __time__ to hangout/watch a movie/talk/ whatever
 
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Nah, just keep trying to catch her nekkid ass in the window and jerk off to that.

It's the best you can hope for.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by fabman
Nah, just keep trying to catch her nekkid ass in the window and jerk off to that.

It's the best you can hope for.
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Absolutely true. I think I will actually ask her to see a movie or something like " do you want to see a movie later when my mom's not home?" She has a pet racoon and sleeps in the same room as her little sister.
 
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watch the movie lol. but on the real, how about just draw her atention sometime when ur both outside. Maybe shoot some hoops or something. Then just go up to her an introduce yourself. If you're new to the town ask her to show you around. Ask her what there is to do for fun around the area. You get the drift...
 
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