"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm new to the DJ Discussion Forum but I have been reading the bible and I can't really find a solution to my problem.

I just moved and it is the beggining of summer so school is out. Well I have this really hot girl that lives next door. I am kind of new to the game and I am okay looking but not great Brad Pitt or anything like that. So back to my delimma. I don't know how to approach her and get up to where she is coming over and what ever.

She changes and doesn't close her curtains but she might be accidently doing this so I don't want to act like I have seen her naked if she didn't know about it but if she did I don't want her to think that I am not into having sex with her because I most definitely would.

I know the basics of being a DJ but I see this as a great opportunity and I would like to know what real DJ's think I should do.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude! I was in ur exact situation a year ago! But that was before I found this site so I completely ruined it by acting AFC.
Treat her like any other girl. i.e. just ask her out.
I am killing myself right now for not discovering this site earlier coz hooking up with ur neighbor gives u SOOO many more opportunities!!!
I really don't think she was intending u see her change.
 
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I am not an AFC but I figure she's not going anywhere so I will be patient. It is my virtue anyway.
 
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wait until she goes outside (yes kind of like spying), and go up and meet her. Then say "hey how would you like to come over ___day____ at about __time__ to hangout/watch a movie/talk/ whatever
 
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Nah, just keep trying to catch her nekkid ass in the window and jerk off to that.

It's the best you can hope for.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by fabman
Nah, just keep trying to catch her nekkid ass in the window and jerk off to that.

It's the best you can hope for.
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Absolutely true. I think I will actually ask her to see a movie or something like " do you want to see a movie later when my mom's not home?" She has a pet racoon and sleeps in the same room as her little sister.
 
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watch the movie lol. but on the real, how about just draw her atention sometime when ur both outside. Maybe shoot some hoops or something. Then just go up to her an introduce yourself. If you're new to the town ask her to show you around. Ask her what there is to do for fun around the area. You get the drift...
 
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