"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The girl I've been after

Dman101

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well guys i wanted to let you all know that the girl I've been talking about in all of my previous posts, it turns out she really likes me and wants to be my girlfriend. Its crazy how I'm so laid back and shy with her, yet I got this girl. Last night, I was really in my head and was watching movies with her not speaking. I finally massage her, get her naked, and this virgin asks me if I have condoms. I knew I couldnt get it up so I just told her that I really liked her and didnt want to do that right now, so we talk and it turns out she liked me a lot all this time and wants to be my gf.

I told her i liked her a lot and wanted to keep hanging with her and keep getting to know her for now. So do you think it would be good to get into this relationship with this girl? I"ve had a thing for for so long, and I'm happy, but I know I still can't pick up girls and have AFC tendencies and social anxiety but shes a very good catch.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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