"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The girl I've been after

Dman101

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well guys i wanted to let you all know that the girl I've been talking about in all of my previous posts, it turns out she really likes me and wants to be my girlfriend. Its crazy how I'm so laid back and shy with her, yet I got this girl. Last night, I was really in my head and was watching movies with her not speaking. I finally massage her, get her naked, and this virgin asks me if I have condoms. I knew I couldnt get it up so I just told her that I really liked her and didnt want to do that right now, so we talk and it turns out she liked me a lot all this time and wants to be my gf.

I told her i liked her a lot and wanted to keep hanging with her and keep getting to know her for now. So do you think it would be good to get into this relationship with this girl? I"ve had a thing for for so long, and I'm happy, but I know I still can't pick up girls and have AFC tendencies and social anxiety but shes a very good catch.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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