Thorninmyside
Master Don Juan
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Girl I'm the middle and right pic hot af. My type right there. Well done dude.It's all taste but I don't dig Caucasian girls for the most part unless you take out the Cauc.
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@switch7, this girl was the most beautiful girl I ever saw in my life. I ran into her at 3 different locations by chance. I never loved any girl as much as her. She was as smart as she was sexy.Neil are you after a trophy on your arm or a girl that YOU are genuinely attracted to?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ok fair enough. Though I still don't get why you care about their rating so much... so long as a girl does it for you then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. You have a thing for cataloging stuff I guess?@switch7, this girl was the most beautiful girl I ever saw in my life. I ran into her at 3 different locations by chance. I never loved any girl as much as her. She was as smart as she was sexy.
50 photos that I took of her rated 96 or higher. FIFTY! The photographer/model love affair was a dream come true. I learned a lot, and now can literally talk any girl I see on the street into posing for about the cost of dinner (the price keeps going down the more experience I get). I learned a lot about extracting the right photos from the scene, and the importance of getting a third party consensus.
Last night I lined up a new model for Tuesday night. She has texted me 8 straight days in anticipation of the shoot. The last 2 times I saw her (I only met her 13 days ago) she ran over and hugged me and had braided her hair for me. In an ironic twist, she had the same braids as my favorite model when I first met her, and she asked me the model's name and it turns out they have the same name, and same birthyear.
She used to say 'fair enough'.Ok fair enough. Though I still don't get why you care about their rating so much....
Remember: they are rating the photo, not the person.Opinions of 20 people you don't know aren't very statistically sound though. You need to go with your gut more often. If a girl is beautiful to you, you're a success. If she's not beautiful to someone else, so what?
Case in point, the plate above who rated 51% "smart" has an IQ of 150, employs 100 people in a factory she owns, has no dad issues, doesn't self-mutilate with excessive tats or piercings, and has really high morals. That's value. Only you can truly know what one of your models offers as a person vs the others.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
(I've submitted some photos to get 40 votes and they score the same).
You need a far bigger sample size to get accurate results surely?(I've submitted some photos to get 40 votes and they score the same).
Wait, SS members seem to think 1 vote (theirs) is enough to declare her rating.You need a far bigger sample size to get accurate results surely?