Thorninmyside
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It's all taste but I don't dig Caucasian girls for the most part unless you take out the Cauc.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Girl I Fired
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl I'm the middle and right pic hot af. My type right there. Well done dude.
@Thorninmyside
Thanks. Your girl scored exactly the same as the girl people are saying isn't that hot - 84. Most strippers score around there. Girls in that range are super hot in person and don't photograph as well.
Now look at the scores for my favorite model... in 5 outfits (Note none are selfies - I took all of those photos except two where I am in the photo) nobody can touch her (sadly including myself now). But I found a new girl who last night agreed to pose on Tuesday.
Thanks. Your girl scored exactly the same as the girl people are saying isn't that hot - 84. Most strippers score around there. Girls in that range are super hot in person and don't photograph as well.
Now look at the scores for my favorite model... in 5 outfits (Note none are selfies - I took all of those photos except two where I am in the photo) nobody can touch her (sadly including myself now). But I found a new girl who last night agreed to pose on Tuesday.
@switch7, this girl was the most beautiful girl I ever saw in my life. I ran into her at 3 different locations by chance. I never loved any girl as much as her. She was as smart as she was sexy.
50 photos that I took of her rated 96 or higher. FIFTY! The photographer/model love affair was a dream come true. I learned a lot, and now can literally talk any girl I see on the street into posing for about the cost of dinner (the price keeps going down the more experience I get). I learned a lot about extracting the right photos from the scene, and the importance of getting a third party consensus.
Last night I lined up a new model for Tuesday night. She has texted me 8 straight days in anticipation of the shoot. The last 2 times I saw her (I only met her 13 days ago) she ran over and hugged me and had braided her hair for me. In an ironic twist, she had the same braids as my favorite model when I first met her, and she asked me the model's name and it turns out they have the same name, and same birthyear.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ok fair enough. Though I still don't get why you care about their rating so much... so long as a girl does it for you then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. You have a thing for cataloging stuff I guess?
Anyway good work on these girls, especially the blonde.
She used to say 'fair enough'.
I am a statistician and numbers person so I love the ratings system, especially when I got to prove to her how beautiful she is (the formal modeling meant a lot to her, and helped get her out of stripping and that got her back with her rich dad, who then financed her divorce). This photography hobby is something women love and something that can really help them.
We were chasing perfection and it meant the same to me as the producer and photographer as it did to her the actress and model. We had planned some amazing shoots that never came to pass. She was going to do Grace Kelly in High Noon.
Also, as this thread shows, one guy says a girl is hot and another guy says she's not that hot, and this consensus settles it. I think everyone agrees my blonde was hotter than my brunette. She and I produced timeless art together.
Thorninmyside
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Opinions of 20 people you don't know aren't very statistically sound though. You need to go with your gut more often. If a girl is beautiful to you, you're a success. If she's not beautiful to someone else, so what?
Case in point, the plate above who rated 51% "smart" has an IQ of 150, employs 100 people in a factory she owns, has no dad issues, doesn't self-mutilate with excessive tats or piercings, and has really high morals. That's value. Only you can truly know what one of your models offers as a person vs the others.
Case in point, the plate above who rated 51% "smart" has an IQ of 150, employs 100 people in a factory she owns, has no dad issues, doesn't self-mutilate with excessive tats or piercings, and has really high morals. That's value. Only you can truly know what one of your models offers as a person vs the others.
Remember: they are rating the photo, not the person.
I could probably photograph your girl and she would score much higher.
But I had photos of 100 women rated and no girl rated 98 average except her, and she did every time. I don't even want to like her anymore, I'm not dating her anymore, but give credit where it is due. I think it's safe to say those girls are hot.
Note that 3 girls scored 100 in Attractive (who I don't know, members submitted them to me), but none scored 98/98/98 or 97/98/99. I had 1200 photos rated. Those were the highest.
20 votes is statistically significant - proven by the fact that if I resubmitted these photos (I did) they score the same.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You need a far bigger sample size to get accurate results surely?
Wait, SS members seem to think 1 vote (theirs) is enough to declare her rating.
Anyhow, it's not true that a bigger sample size is needed (you get to choose 10, 20, 40, 80)... Hot of Not showed 15 years ago that even 10 votes is generally enough to get ballpark rating.
Like I said, the same photos consistently rate the same way, and I've run the 99% ones to 40 votes and they held true. If what you are saying is true, there would be a wider variation if you ran the same photo multiple times.
It costs $2.50 for one photo to be rated by 20 people in 3 categories. That's not cheap. Also, this girl had several photos rate 99. She's f*cking gorgeous and yet you guys are determined to somehow discount her, even going so far as to question the people who voted on her.
If scoring 99 is easy or random, send me some photos that rate that high.