Thorninmyside
Master Don Juan
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl I'm the middle and right pic hot af. My type right there. Well done dude.It's all taste but I don't dig Caucasian girls for the most part unless you take out the Cauc.
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@switch7, this girl was the most beautiful girl I ever saw in my life. I ran into her at 3 different locations by chance. I never loved any girl as much as her. She was as smart as she was sexy.Neil are you after a trophy on your arm or a girl that YOU are genuinely attracted to?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ok fair enough. Though I still don't get why you care about their rating so much... so long as a girl does it for you then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. You have a thing for cataloging stuff I guess?@switch7, this girl was the most beautiful girl I ever saw in my life. I ran into her at 3 different locations by chance. I never loved any girl as much as her. She was as smart as she was sexy.
50 photos that I took of her rated 96 or higher. FIFTY! The photographer/model love affair was a dream come true. I learned a lot, and now can literally talk any girl I see on the street into posing for about the cost of dinner (the price keeps going down the more experience I get). I learned a lot about extracting the right photos from the scene, and the importance of getting a third party consensus.
Last night I lined up a new model for Tuesday night. She has texted me 8 straight days in anticipation of the shoot. The last 2 times I saw her (I only met her 13 days ago) she ran over and hugged me and had braided her hair for me. In an ironic twist, she had the same braids as my favorite model when I first met her, and she asked me the model's name and it turns out they have the same name, and same birthyear.
She used to say 'fair enough'.Ok fair enough. Though I still don't get why you care about their rating so much....
Remember: they are rating the photo, not the person.Opinions of 20 people you don't know aren't very statistically sound though. You need to go with your gut more often. If a girl is beautiful to you, you're a success. If she's not beautiful to someone else, so what?
Case in point, the plate above who rated 51% "smart" has an IQ of 150, employs 100 people in a factory she owns, has no dad issues, doesn't self-mutilate with excessive tats or piercings, and has really high morals. That's value. Only you can truly know what one of your models offers as a person vs the others.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
(I've submitted some photos to get 40 votes and they score the same).
You need a far bigger sample size to get accurate results surely?(I've submitted some photos to get 40 votes and they score the same).
Wait, SS members seem to think 1 vote (theirs) is enough to declare her rating.You need a far bigger sample size to get accurate results surely?