"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The girl at Wendy's just eye-fvcked the sh!t outta me

guywhoneedshelp

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True story. My Dad and I were out with my 5 year old brother and 5 year old sister (they are twins.) We were looking at cars, then we went to Wendys. The hot chick working there was giving me a look and we exchanged some smiles.

Turns out I remembered her, eye-fvcking me in the past, and remembered where I met her and remembered her giving me her number like 6 months ago. I was at a bowling alley and saw her and her friends taking pictures then did the whole "offer to take a pic" thing and she ended up writing her # on a napkin that she handed to me on my way out. I never called her though because I was in a relationship.

So I was like, wow. So she ended up writing her number down again on a napkin today after I gave her a few smiles and said "I think I remember you". I'm gonna call her.

It's cool that so much can be done without actually speaking. No verbalization took place, just smiles and stuff.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I just called her, one minute chat. She said she recognized my eyes. lemme tell ya, this girl is hawwwt

lol this is a true story
 

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This is actually very common.

I think it's extremely important for men to feel confident to keep eye contact with women in these circumstances..and learn to enjoy them.

There are some women out there who CANNOT CONTROL their attraction to you. You can see it and feel it coming from them. It is Powerful.


Enjoy that interaction.


And capitalize it whenever possible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Interceptor said:
This is actually very common.

I think it's extremely important for men to feel confident to keep eye contact with women in these circumstances..and learn to enjoy them.

There are some women out there who CANNOT CONTROL their attraction to you. You can see it and feel it coming from them. It is Powerful.


Enjoy that interaction.


And capitalize it whenever possible.
Let me say something here now that we are on to a serious discussion. I find that when I have had my eyebrows recently waxed (no homo, I'm serious) then I am more confident in keeping eye contact with women in circumstances like the situation I had today. Also, when I recently shaved my facial hair as well. Basically, it helps to be looking your best all the time, because you not only appear better, you act better.
 

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LOL just for kicks when some women approach me claiming to know me
I'll play it off like i never met them or worse yet don't remember them
this dents the hell out of their egos and its amazing to hear the details they recall from a ten minute interaction from as long as a year ago
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
True story. My Dad and I were out with my 5 year old brother and 5 year old sister (they are twins.) We were looking at cars, then we went to Wendys. The hot chick working there was giving me a look and we exchanged some smiles.

Turns out I remembered her, eye-fvcking me in the past, and remembered where I met her and remembered her giving me her number like 6 months ago. I was at a bowling alley and saw her and her friends taking pictures then did the whole "offer to take a pic" thing and she ended up writing her # on a napkin that she handed to me on my way out. I never called her though because I was in a relationship.

So I was like, wow. So she ended up writing her number down again on a napkin today after I gave her a few smiles and said "I think I remember you". I'm gonna call her.

It's cool that so much can be done without actually speaking. No verbalization took place, just smiles and stuff.
she was giving you AIs - Approach Invitations. You should always try to build a little rapport before closing. Helps a lot in the long run.

Btw I agree with what you are saying about feeling confident when you shave etc.. but I have been able to get results in both "looking good" and "looking shabby" conditions. So I agree to what Mystery says - "This game is about S and R, its like a game of chess, its very strategic even though our emotions get involved."
 

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I see a lifetime supply of Frosties in your future Man. :up:
 
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