"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The girl at Wendy's just eye-fvcked the sh!t outta me

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True story. My Dad and I were out with my 5 year old brother and 5 year old sister (they are twins.) We were looking at cars, then we went to Wendys. The hot chick working there was giving me a look and we exchanged some smiles.

Turns out I remembered her, eye-fvcking me in the past, and remembered where I met her and remembered her giving me her number like 6 months ago. I was at a bowling alley and saw her and her friends taking pictures then did the whole "offer to take a pic" thing and she ended up writing her # on a napkin that she handed to me on my way out. I never called her though because I was in a relationship.

So I was like, wow. So she ended up writing her number down again on a napkin today after I gave her a few smiles and said "I think I remember you". I'm gonna call her.

It's cool that so much can be done without actually speaking. No verbalization took place, just smiles and stuff.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just called her, one minute chat. She said she recognized my eyes. lemme tell ya, this girl is hawwwt

lol this is a true story
 

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This is actually very common.

I think it's extremely important for men to feel confident to keep eye contact with women in these circumstances..and learn to enjoy them.

There are some women out there who CANNOT CONTROL their attraction to you. You can see it and feel it coming from them. It is Powerful.


Enjoy that interaction.


And capitalize it whenever possible.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Interceptor said:
This is actually very common.

I think it's extremely important for men to feel confident to keep eye contact with women in these circumstances..and learn to enjoy them.

There are some women out there who CANNOT CONTROL their attraction to you. You can see it and feel it coming from them. It is Powerful.


Enjoy that interaction.


And capitalize it whenever possible.
Let me say something here now that we are on to a serious discussion. I find that when I have had my eyebrows recently waxed (no homo, I'm serious) then I am more confident in keeping eye contact with women in circumstances like the situation I had today. Also, when I recently shaved my facial hair as well. Basically, it helps to be looking your best all the time, because you not only appear better, you act better.
 

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LOL just for kicks when some women approach me claiming to know me
I'll play it off like i never met them or worse yet don't remember them
this dents the hell out of their egos and its amazing to hear the details they recall from a ten minute interaction from as long as a year ago
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
True story. My Dad and I were out with my 5 year old brother and 5 year old sister (they are twins.) We were looking at cars, then we went to Wendys. The hot chick working there was giving me a look and we exchanged some smiles.

Turns out I remembered her, eye-fvcking me in the past, and remembered where I met her and remembered her giving me her number like 6 months ago. I was at a bowling alley and saw her and her friends taking pictures then did the whole "offer to take a pic" thing and she ended up writing her # on a napkin that she handed to me on my way out. I never called her though because I was in a relationship.

So I was like, wow. So she ended up writing her number down again on a napkin today after I gave her a few smiles and said "I think I remember you". I'm gonna call her.

It's cool that so much can be done without actually speaking. No verbalization took place, just smiles and stuff.
she was giving you AIs - Approach Invitations. You should always try to build a little rapport before closing. Helps a lot in the long run.

Btw I agree with what you are saying about feeling confident when you shave etc.. but I have been able to get results in both "looking good" and "looking shabby" conditions. So I agree to what Mystery says - "This game is about S and R, its like a game of chess, its very strategic even though our emotions get involved."
 

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I see a lifetime supply of Frosties in your future Man. :up:
 
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