"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The girl at Wendy's just eye-fvcked the sh!t outta me

guywhoneedshelp

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True story. My Dad and I were out with my 5 year old brother and 5 year old sister (they are twins.) We were looking at cars, then we went to Wendys. The hot chick working there was giving me a look and we exchanged some smiles.

Turns out I remembered her, eye-fvcking me in the past, and remembered where I met her and remembered her giving me her number like 6 months ago. I was at a bowling alley and saw her and her friends taking pictures then did the whole "offer to take a pic" thing and she ended up writing her # on a napkin that she handed to me on my way out. I never called her though because I was in a relationship.

So I was like, wow. So she ended up writing her number down again on a napkin today after I gave her a few smiles and said "I think I remember you". I'm gonna call her.

It's cool that so much can be done without actually speaking. No verbalization took place, just smiles and stuff.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I just called her, one minute chat. She said she recognized my eyes. lemme tell ya, this girl is hawwwt

lol this is a true story
 

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This is actually very common.

I think it's extremely important for men to feel confident to keep eye contact with women in these circumstances..and learn to enjoy them.

There are some women out there who CANNOT CONTROL their attraction to you. You can see it and feel it coming from them. It is Powerful.


Enjoy that interaction.


And capitalize it whenever possible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Interceptor said:
This is actually very common.

I think it's extremely important for men to feel confident to keep eye contact with women in these circumstances..and learn to enjoy them.

There are some women out there who CANNOT CONTROL their attraction to you. You can see it and feel it coming from them. It is Powerful.


Enjoy that interaction.


And capitalize it whenever possible.
Let me say something here now that we are on to a serious discussion. I find that when I have had my eyebrows recently waxed (no homo, I'm serious) then I am more confident in keeping eye contact with women in circumstances like the situation I had today. Also, when I recently shaved my facial hair as well. Basically, it helps to be looking your best all the time, because you not only appear better, you act better.
 

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LOL just for kicks when some women approach me claiming to know me
I'll play it off like i never met them or worse yet don't remember them
this dents the hell out of their egos and its amazing to hear the details they recall from a ten minute interaction from as long as a year ago
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
True story. My Dad and I were out with my 5 year old brother and 5 year old sister (they are twins.) We were looking at cars, then we went to Wendys. The hot chick working there was giving me a look and we exchanged some smiles.

Turns out I remembered her, eye-fvcking me in the past, and remembered where I met her and remembered her giving me her number like 6 months ago. I was at a bowling alley and saw her and her friends taking pictures then did the whole "offer to take a pic" thing and she ended up writing her # on a napkin that she handed to me on my way out. I never called her though because I was in a relationship.

So I was like, wow. So she ended up writing her number down again on a napkin today after I gave her a few smiles and said "I think I remember you". I'm gonna call her.

It's cool that so much can be done without actually speaking. No verbalization took place, just smiles and stuff.
she was giving you AIs - Approach Invitations. You should always try to build a little rapport before closing. Helps a lot in the long run.

Btw I agree with what you are saying about feeling confident when you shave etc.. but I have been able to get results in both "looking good" and "looking shabby" conditions. So I agree to what Mystery says - "This game is about S and R, its like a game of chess, its very strategic even though our emotions get involved."
 

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I see a lifetime supply of Frosties in your future Man. :up:
 
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