"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"The Get Laid DJ Boot Camp" Idea
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
the pain
Don Juan
but somethings needs to be supported
im in......lets go
pain inside power outside..........
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
Master of the Universe
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I honestly don't know what the status of the relationship with my gf will be in the soon future, but regardless, the Get Laid DJ Boot Camp is going to roll (as much as I loved your idea Saine, it looks like it might not be necessary
)At the beginning of December I will post the full info on this Boot Camp, which will last 4 weeks and will start during the middle of December.
Well guys, it's past 3 am, and I'm exhausted. So good night, and be prepared for some MAJOR fun. Hahaha!!!!!!!
MotU
P.S. Paradox, thanks for turning the post into a sticky!
*muah*Originally posted by Master of the Universe
(as much as I loved your idea Saine, it looks like it might not be necessary
At the beginning of December I will post the full info on this Boot Camp, which will last 4 weeks and will start during the middle of December.
I love you, see? My plan worked. "Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sounds good.
MotU, do you actually post some good tips or would it be rather motivational?
Anyways, I'd better practice a little beforehand (hopefully many times on the cruise!).
Gotta get my **** ready and buy a truckload of rubbers!
Deathfyre
Don Juan
If it's still going, when is it starting?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, MOTU has broken up with his ex (http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=44379) so I'm hopeful that he'll read this thread and be filled with eagerness at creating another Boot Camp.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.