"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"The Get Laid DJ Boot Camp" Idea
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
the pain
Don Juan
but somethings needs to be supported
im in......lets go
pain inside power outside..........
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
Master of the Universe
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I honestly don't know what the status of the relationship with my gf will be in the soon future, but regardless, the Get Laid DJ Boot Camp is going to roll (as much as I loved your idea Saine, it looks like it might not be necessary
)At the beginning of December I will post the full info on this Boot Camp, which will last 4 weeks and will start during the middle of December.
Well guys, it's past 3 am, and I'm exhausted. So good night, and be prepared for some MAJOR fun. Hahaha!!!!!!!
MotU
P.S. Paradox, thanks for turning the post into a sticky!
*muah*Originally posted by Master of the Universe
(as much as I loved your idea Saine, it looks like it might not be necessary
At the beginning of December I will post the full info on this Boot Camp, which will last 4 weeks and will start during the middle of December.
I love you, see? My plan worked. "I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
sounds good.
MotU, do you actually post some good tips or would it be rather motivational?
Anyways, I'd better practice a little beforehand (hopefully many times on the cruise!).
Gotta get my **** ready and buy a truckload of rubbers!
Deathfyre
Don Juan
If it's still going, when is it starting?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, MOTU has broken up with his ex (http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=44379) so I'm hopeful that he'll read this thread and be filled with eagerness at creating another Boot Camp.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.