"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"The Get Laid DJ Boot Camp" Idea
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
the pain
Don Juan
but somethings needs to be supported
im in......lets go
pain inside power outside..........
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
Master of the Universe
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I honestly don't know what the status of the relationship with my gf will be in the soon future, but regardless, the Get Laid DJ Boot Camp is going to roll (as much as I loved your idea Saine, it looks like it might not be necessary
)At the beginning of December I will post the full info on this Boot Camp, which will last 4 weeks and will start during the middle of December.
Well guys, it's past 3 am, and I'm exhausted. So good night, and be prepared for some MAJOR fun. Hahaha!!!!!!!
MotU
P.S. Paradox, thanks for turning the post into a sticky!
*muah*Originally posted by Master of the Universe
(as much as I loved your idea Saine, it looks like it might not be necessary
At the beginning of December I will post the full info on this Boot Camp, which will last 4 weeks and will start during the middle of December.
I love you, see? My plan worked. "She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sounds good.
MotU, do you actually post some good tips or would it be rather motivational?
Anyways, I'd better practice a little beforehand (hopefully many times on the cruise!).
Gotta get my **** ready and buy a truckload of rubbers!
Deathfyre
Don Juan
If it's still going, when is it starting?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, MOTU has broken up with his ex (http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=44379) so I'm hopeful that he'll read this thread and be filled with eagerness at creating another Boot Camp.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.