"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"The Game from an AFC perspective"

Packers2010

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here is something i have been thinking about lately.

"the game From the Perspective of an AFC"

what IS game?

Game is getting the girl.

How do i get the girl?

It's not about HOW to get the girl it's more about NOT what to do.

then what DON'T I do?

DON'T tell her you LOVE her so EARLY. a year in maybe, 2 months? NO! you do this, you lose the game!

Don't become Needy and obsessive over her. you should be on your GRIND! you should be WORKING on you MORE then you are putting time into her. You Don't do this. you lose the game.

Start Doing things you enjoy! me, i started making youtube videos on game and me in general. take a look, link is in sig. remember though, these videos are for me. not for help. DO things that HELP you. when I look back at these videos i am going to see how far i have come, and remember all the realizations i have had. you don't do this. YOU WILL LOOSE THE GAME!

you see what i am getting at. it's not about becoming good. it's about stopping your afc moves first. Then you can work with a blank canvas. Just remember, Rome wasn't built in a day. to WIN the game is going to take a lifetime. it's the how you get there that's the fun part.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Aaron B

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you get the girl by genuinely not caring if you get the girl, because you realize your own value and you will only reward women (with the experience of being with you) who earn it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LearningSlowly

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runner83 said:
Much easier to replace bad habits with good ones as you go and gradually improve yourself, rather than aim to eliminate the bad ones and start from a blank slate.
My thoughts as well. Learn what works through trial and error, and start using that more, don't try to censor yourself.
 

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runner83 said:
Much easier to replace bad habits with good ones as you go and gradually improve yourself, rather than aim to eliminate the bad ones and start from a blank slate.
Very well put. Quote worthy right there.
 
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