"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"The Game from an AFC perspective"

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here is something i have been thinking about lately.

"the game From the Perspective of an AFC"

what IS game?

Game is getting the girl.

How do i get the girl?

It's not about HOW to get the girl it's more about NOT what to do.

then what DON'T I do?

DON'T tell her you LOVE her so EARLY. a year in maybe, 2 months? NO! you do this, you lose the game!

Don't become Needy and obsessive over her. you should be on your GRIND! you should be WORKING on you MORE then you are putting time into her. You Don't do this. you lose the game.

Start Doing things you enjoy! me, i started making youtube videos on game and me in general. take a look, link is in sig. remember though, these videos are for me. not for help. DO things that HELP you. when I look back at these videos i am going to see how far i have come, and remember all the realizations i have had. you don't do this. YOU WILL LOOSE THE GAME!

you see what i am getting at. it's not about becoming good. it's about stopping your afc moves first. Then you can work with a blank canvas. Just remember, Rome wasn't built in a day. to WIN the game is going to take a lifetime. it's the how you get there that's the fun part.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you get the girl by genuinely not caring if you get the girl, because you realize your own value and you will only reward women (with the experience of being with you) who earn it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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runner83 said:
Much easier to replace bad habits with good ones as you go and gradually improve yourself, rather than aim to eliminate the bad ones and start from a blank slate.
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My thoughts as well. Learn what works through trial and error, and start using that more, don't try to censor yourself.
 
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runner83 said:
Much easier to replace bad habits with good ones as you go and gradually improve yourself, rather than aim to eliminate the bad ones and start from a blank slate.
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Very well put. Quote worthy right there.
 
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