"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"The Game from an AFC perspective"

Packers2010

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here is something i have been thinking about lately.

"the game From the Perspective of an AFC"

what IS game?

Game is getting the girl.

How do i get the girl?

It's not about HOW to get the girl it's more about NOT what to do.

then what DON'T I do?

DON'T tell her you LOVE her so EARLY. a year in maybe, 2 months? NO! you do this, you lose the game!

Don't become Needy and obsessive over her. you should be on your GRIND! you should be WORKING on you MORE then you are putting time into her. You Don't do this. you lose the game.

Start Doing things you enjoy! me, i started making youtube videos on game and me in general. take a look, link is in sig. remember though, these videos are for me. not for help. DO things that HELP you. when I look back at these videos i am going to see how far i have come, and remember all the realizations i have had. you don't do this. YOU WILL LOOSE THE GAME!

you see what i am getting at. it's not about becoming good. it's about stopping your afc moves first. Then you can work with a blank canvas. Just remember, Rome wasn't built in a day. to WIN the game is going to take a lifetime. it's the how you get there that's the fun part.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aaron B

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you get the girl by genuinely not caring if you get the girl, because you realize your own value and you will only reward women (with the experience of being with you) who earn it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LearningSlowly

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runner83 said:
Much easier to replace bad habits with good ones as you go and gradually improve yourself, rather than aim to eliminate the bad ones and start from a blank slate.
My thoughts as well. Learn what works through trial and error, and start using that more, don't try to censor yourself.
 

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runner83 said:
Much easier to replace bad habits with good ones as you go and gradually improve yourself, rather than aim to eliminate the bad ones and start from a blank slate.
Very well put. Quote worthy right there.
 
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