"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Fraity of Innocence...

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Eeegh...Greets, fellas.

This is somewhat tough to explain, but I dont know what the deal has been lately...I've just not been very motivated / inspired in the past few weeks (nearly a month) to do anything. I come here, try to read a few posts and keep up-to-date with the Bibles and such, but just feel burnt out with it all...

Haven't talked to a new girl in over a week and a half, and I feel like I'm getting rusty. It's like I dont have the motivation to succeed right now...

Anyone have any words of wisdom or inspiration they could spare? It would be greatly appreciated, especially now with only a few weeks of school left. I dont want to go out on a negative note...

Cheers.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There's more to it than that, AFK.

We all hit bad times now and again. I'm in one right now. The best advice I can give you is to keep your head up, there's nothing wrong with you. This happens. Focus on having a good time, doing something you really enjoy and might not have done for a while. For instance, I love to golf. I have spent some time on the driving range ever since the weather got good and I feel a lot better-more motivated, happier, more satisfied.

The party isn't over-the DJ of life just put on a bad record. :)
 
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Try and have faith. Not necessarily in God, but have faith in something. Have faith that you will persevere. Have faith that the world may someday change. Have faith in something; find what works for you.

It sounds like nothing in particular is bothering you, just your insecurities and doubts; don't worry, we all have them. I would suggest taking it back to basics. What kind of person do you want to be? Why aren't you that person now? What will it take to become that person? Being a great person is a very demanding thing; you need to take a break every now and then to face your doubts. Don't worry, you'll be an even greater person at the end of it all. You can't expect yourself to be perfect 100% of the time, so just accept the fact that nothing is wrong with you. You'll rise to the top once more when you're ready.

Best of luck!!!
 
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Thanks guys...I appreciate it :)

I dunno why I've been so blue lately...It's not like I've done anything irregularly in the past few weeks.

But I dunno, I think its all good - As we speak theres a beautiful gal asleep on my couch :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can feel you on this one man. Sometimes I don't feel like socializing or anything. Then sometimes Im in such a good mindset that I'm afraid I might loose it. Now im not saying your a coward or that your afraid but sometimes I believe we worry when we get knocked out of our game.

The best thing to do is just roll with the punches.
 
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