"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Formula of Attraction

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Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ElCubanito13 said:
Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
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you think distance/disapearing is good? espesically after a a couple of dates and hook ups..or do you think showing alot of interest then being gone..actually works..or does a continueation of recriprication of interest needed to attract the female?
 
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ElCubanito13 said:
Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
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This works with beautiful girls because most guys are way too eager to try to get with girls.

Spend little time with her = don't go out of your way to interact with her too much, just haunt her periphery.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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