"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Formula of Attraction

ElCubanito13

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Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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chrisgoodrich25

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ElCubanito13 said:
Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
you think distance/disapearing is good? espesically after a a couple of dates and hook ups..or do you think showing alot of interest then being gone..actually works..or does a continueation of recriprication of interest needed to attract the female?
 

Trader

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ElCubanito13 said:
Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
This works with beautiful girls because most guys are way too eager to try to get with girls.

Spend little time with her = don't go out of your way to interact with her too much, just haunt her periphery.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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