"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Formula of Attraction

ElCubanito13

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Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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chrisgoodrich25

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ElCubanito13 said:
Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
you think distance/disapearing is good? espesically after a a couple of dates and hook ups..or do you think showing alot of interest then being gone..actually works..or does a continueation of recriprication of interest needed to attract the female?
 

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ElCubanito13 said:
Alright here is a lil' formula that I find its more often then not proven.
You might have seen before but here it is.

V/T=A

V=Value
T=Time
A=Attraction

What I mean is you should spend little time with her. BUT when you do spend time with her make her have loads of fun and YOU HAVE TO FLIRT ALOT!!!
If you do that she's gonna start chasing you like crazy because she WANTS to spend more time with YOU!!
This works with beautiful girls because most guys are way too eager to try to get with girls.

Spend little time with her = don't go out of your way to interact with her too much, just haunt her periphery.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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