"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the flirt/player girl

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Any tips on gaming the flirty girl who has a reputation of being a player? the one who (figuratively) plays with a dudes balls and then is like oh btw im not into you. I was thinking that she's obviously used to guys being pushovers, falling for her, etc, and she gets her "high" from it. I was thinking about using more push-pull than usual to not be the stereotypical AFC that she expects to fall for her whom she then rejects.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just be alpha man, the girl does it all for you in these cases. Just be able to out banter her and out man her, maybe stay cold on her a little longer so she wants you more.
 
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negs. bring her value down, make her know that you know its all a game for her and you're not falling for it.
 
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Thanks for the advice guys, it parallels what i was thinking. We'll start tomorrow ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She dose this becuase she notices on some level, that she resets guys frames to where they are lower than her, More so how ever its the guys fault for they change there frame or mindset to please her beacuse they want her vag. The next step is where most guys fail when you understand this your making progress, Most guys will become angry and neg her and neg her only to see that she slowly will go away becuase she cant get that reaction out of you. The best way is to be the value giver at alltimes if shes acting cute call her cute if shes says something dumb use ****y funny, if she dose somthing you dont like neg her.
 
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