"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the flirt/player girl

dj_jazzybrad

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Any tips on gaming the flirty girl who has a reputation of being a player? the one who (figuratively) plays with a dudes balls and then is like oh btw im not into you. I was thinking that she's obviously used to guys being pushovers, falling for her, etc, and she gets her "high" from it. I was thinking about using more push-pull than usual to not be the stereotypical AFC that she expects to fall for her whom she then rejects.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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intrextrovert

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Just be alpha man, the girl does it all for you in these cases. Just be able to out banter her and out man her, maybe stay cold on her a little longer so she wants you more.
 

Cassanova_Child

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negs. bring her value down, make her know that you know its all a game for her and you're not falling for it.
 

dj_jazzybrad

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Thanks for the advice guys, it parallels what i was thinking. We'll start tomorrow ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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frisco

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She dose this becuase she notices on some level, that she resets guys frames to where they are lower than her, More so how ever its the guys fault for they change there frame or mindset to please her beacuse they want her vag. The next step is where most guys fail when you understand this your making progress, Most guys will become angry and neg her and neg her only to see that she slowly will go away becuase she cant get that reaction out of you. The best way is to be the value giver at alltimes if shes acting cute call her cute if shes says something dumb use ****y funny, if she dose somthing you dont like neg her.
 
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