"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the flirt/player girl

dj_jazzybrad

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Any tips on gaming the flirty girl who has a reputation of being a player? the one who (figuratively) plays with a dudes balls and then is like oh btw im not into you. I was thinking that she's obviously used to guys being pushovers, falling for her, etc, and she gets her "high" from it. I was thinking about using more push-pull than usual to not be the stereotypical AFC that she expects to fall for her whom she then rejects.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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intrextrovert

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Just be alpha man, the girl does it all for you in these cases. Just be able to out banter her and out man her, maybe stay cold on her a little longer so she wants you more.
 

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negs. bring her value down, make her know that you know its all a game for her and you're not falling for it.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys, it parallels what i was thinking. We'll start tomorrow ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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frisco

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She dose this becuase she notices on some level, that she resets guys frames to where they are lower than her, More so how ever its the guys fault for they change there frame or mindset to please her beacuse they want her vag. The next step is where most guys fail when you understand this your making progress, Most guys will become angry and neg her and neg her only to see that she slowly will go away becuase she cant get that reaction out of you. The best way is to be the value giver at alltimes if shes acting cute call her cute if shes says something dumb use ****y funny, if she dose somthing you dont like neg her.
 
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