"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The first call

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Need some help, I have no problem picking up
girls, getting numbers, as long as I am face to face. But when it comes to calling them for the
first time, I'm completely cool and calm when I
go to dial the phone, but as the phone rings I feel
a weird anxiety attack coming on, by the time
they answer, my heartrate is pounding to the
point of where I feel sick, I don't understand why,
I feel no need to impress these girls, and quite frankly I could give a sh*t about them, what can I do to stay calm when making the first call? Any tips or tricks would be most appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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serial_kisser

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pretty easy.,...preplan....just write down what would you be speaking while talkin' to her on phone,,,,BUT write it down before calling her.......it couldn't get any easier.....
have fun.....just follow what i told you......it will be easy on you.
 
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Just pretend she's in front of you and have fun. If you can go up to her, shoot the ****, and get her number, you should be able to call her.
 
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...and try to keep it as short as possible.

One of the way I usually end the conversation when I get a girl's number is to teach her how to greet me when I call.

me: "so, when I call you, you are going to pick up and say 'OH MY GOD! I cant believe you rang!!!!' and act really exited!"

she might say she wont do that, or feel shy about it. but thats not important.

When you do ring her, she will either say it, or if she doesn't, you can say "hey! didn't we practice how you were going to greet me???"

That will have her giggling, and hopefully it will relax you as well because you will be picking up the conversation at the hight point that you left it!

good luck!
 
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Fash, that's great. I love it. I think I heard Lance Mason say that once too. Good advice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no dude dont write anything down. that is even more unnatural. just calm down when you call. understand that they are people too. shes probably just as nervous as you. pretend that your better than her. boost your confidence. thats all you need to do.
 
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