"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The female midlife crisis

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I just read a very interesting article on the wall street journal today, heres a summary:

"....By age 50 even more women than men are reaporting a turbulent midlife transition- 36.1% with 34% of men....This pattern of female midlife crisis is now emerging because, to put it simplu, women are different today. For the first time in history , women not only face more of the kind of stresses that tend to bring on midlife crises, but they also have the finacial muscle, the skills and the confidence to act out their frustrations and resolve them. In a sense, women are having midlife crises now because they can. The income of middle ages women has posted powerful gains in comparasion with men's. Womens inflation-adjusted full time earnings have risen 16.8%, men's have declined 1.7% according to goverment statistics. Nearly one-third of wives now outearn their husbands, and the proportion of women earning more than $100,000 have tripled in the past decade....."My successful, satisfying career allowed me to be very independent, with a ****y attitude" that sparked to a full blown midlife crisis, says a california saleswoman in my study. Women today are better educated than men, too, earning 58% of all college degrees granted, including 59% of all master's degrees, says the national center for education statistics.

Ripple effects
Midlife women are turning old sex roles upside down. they are dating and having affairs with younger mates- a lucury that used to be regarded as the exclusive province of men.... In 1991, research showed married men cheated a lot more often, with about one in five admitting to having affairs, compared with one in 10 women. But a 3000 person study from the national oninon research center in 2002 suggests that the overall rate of extramartial cheating for women is rising rapidly and is appraching that of men with nearly one in six married women saying they have had affairs."

I dont think is bad that women are getting better and better, but at this rate, the way we view women will completly change.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thats what i was thinking.ofcourse ill stick with a woman no matter how manly she is of course
 

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Do you think that this is a good thing or bad thing?

If you think that it is a bad thing, what would it talk to turn this situation around if it could be turned around at all.?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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