"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The female midlife crisis

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I just read a very interesting article on the wall street journal today, heres a summary:

"....By age 50 even more women than men are reaporting a turbulent midlife transition- 36.1% with 34% of men....This pattern of female midlife crisis is now emerging because, to put it simplu, women are different today. For the first time in history , women not only face more of the kind of stresses that tend to bring on midlife crises, but they also have the finacial muscle, the skills and the confidence to act out their frustrations and resolve them. In a sense, women are having midlife crises now because they can. The income of middle ages women has posted powerful gains in comparasion with men's. Womens inflation-adjusted full time earnings have risen 16.8%, men's have declined 1.7% according to goverment statistics. Nearly one-third of wives now outearn their husbands, and the proportion of women earning more than $100,000 have tripled in the past decade....."My successful, satisfying career allowed me to be very independent, with a ****y attitude" that sparked to a full blown midlife crisis, says a california saleswoman in my study. Women today are better educated than men, too, earning 58% of all college degrees granted, including 59% of all master's degrees, says the national center for education statistics.

Ripple effects
Midlife women are turning old sex roles upside down. they are dating and having affairs with younger mates- a lucury that used to be regarded as the exclusive province of men.... In 1991, research showed married men cheated a lot more often, with about one in five admitting to having affairs, compared with one in 10 women. But a 3000 person study from the national oninon research center in 2002 suggests that the overall rate of extramartial cheating for women is rising rapidly and is appraching that of men with nearly one in six married women saying they have had affairs."

I dont think is bad that women are getting better and better, but at this rate, the way we view women will completly change.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thats what i was thinking.ofcourse ill stick with a woman no matter how manly she is of course
 

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Do you think that this is a good thing or bad thing?

If you think that it is a bad thing, what would it talk to turn this situation around if it could be turned around at all.?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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