“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The female midlife crisis

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I just read a very interesting article on the wall street journal today, heres a summary:

"....By age 50 even more women than men are reaporting a turbulent midlife transition- 36.1% with 34% of men....This pattern of female midlife crisis is now emerging because, to put it simplu, women are different today. For the first time in history , women not only face more of the kind of stresses that tend to bring on midlife crises, but they also have the finacial muscle, the skills and the confidence to act out their frustrations and resolve them. In a sense, women are having midlife crises now because they can. The income of middle ages women has posted powerful gains in comparasion with men's. Womens inflation-adjusted full time earnings have risen 16.8%, men's have declined 1.7% according to goverment statistics. Nearly one-third of wives now outearn their husbands, and the proportion of women earning more than $100,000 have tripled in the past decade....."My successful, satisfying career allowed me to be very independent, with a ****y attitude" that sparked to a full blown midlife crisis, says a california saleswoman in my study. Women today are better educated than men, too, earning 58% of all college degrees granted, including 59% of all master's degrees, says the national center for education statistics.

Ripple effects
Midlife women are turning old sex roles upside down. they are dating and having affairs with younger mates- a lucury that used to be regarded as the exclusive province of men.... In 1991, research showed married men cheated a lot more often, with about one in five admitting to having affairs, compared with one in 10 women. But a 3000 person study from the national oninon research center in 2002 suggests that the overall rate of extramartial cheating for women is rising rapidly and is appraching that of men with nearly one in six married women saying they have had affairs."

I dont think is bad that women are getting better and better, but at this rate, the way we view women will completly change.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thats what i was thinking.ofcourse ill stick with a woman no matter how manly she is of course
 

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Do you think that this is a good thing or bad thing?

If you think that it is a bad thing, what would it talk to turn this situation around if it could be turned around at all.?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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