Originally posted by That_Guy49
Is it normal for a a guy trying to get better with the ladies to feel awkward in various situations involving women?
Should I just ignore it or is my gut telling me warning me of possible humiliation?
Simple answer yes.
Your body is giving you several signals.
The first is fear, more specifically the fear of rejection.
The next is anxiety, what happens if she says yes? Will I know what to say?
The final feeling is excitement. What could this lead to? Is she the one, etc etc.
What you need to do is not simply ignore the emotion but learn to embrace them and use them to your advantage.
I've been doing this for two years and i am very comfortable with talking to woman, its become second nature. However, there are certain situations where i feel anxious and a little awkward, such as if i screw up, if its more than 2 ladies. But thats why i do it. I know that i need to learn how to recover from a situation, and how to work on groups of chicks.
We all got/get intimidated, you just need to learn to understand it, and use it. The best way to do this is, practice, practice, practice.
Eventually you learn how to use your excitement as a way to show interest, your anxiety can be controlled to show a sense of calmness with the situation, and your fear as a sign of your strength.
Just keep up the work.
