“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The fat question

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I've noticed that women often ask if I think that they are fat. I can't figure out why women ask questions like these or what type of response I should give.

Out of all the women who've asked me I didn't think any of them were fat and I said that. Should I have handled things differently?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Its a self esteem booster. Women are conscious about their weight. All their damn magazines are filled with these skinny supermodels they know they will never be and it makes them feel fat.

And yes you are answering the question correctly.
 

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Proselytiser said:
The fat question is a total mind****! Just NEXT the sorry little *****!
If he does that he'll next every woman in existence. I have yet to meet a woman who hasn't asked if she's fat. Its like some secret universal constant.

The day we make alien contact I am sure one of the first questions asked by the female of the alien species is "Am I fat?"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Really? Current girlfriend has NEVER asked me if I think she's fat or not. She has mentioned her weight once or twice (in over two years) but only 'I should probably exercise a bit more' which she then went and did.

There are girls out there that don't ask this, whether or not there's more who ask the fat question in America (I'm in Australia) I don't know...
 

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I'd give an honest answer. Because I'm nice like that.

But - protip: don't be too blunt about it. And if they're saying that they want to lose weight, but you don't see any need, say something like: "I think you're quite fine as you are, but if you want to tone up then sure, I'll be behind you".
 

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I was asked by my female friend once, and I told her she was fat(She is 5'0 180 lbs).


She liked my honesty and agreed she needed to lose weight.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I typically respond with, "Oh hell yeah!"

If she's got a sense of humor, she'll laugh. If not, she will usually cry and/or hit me with something. Either way, she has proven whether or not she is worth my time.
 

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A girl asked me that once.

Warrior74, do you think I'm fat?

Are you hungry?

No.

Then yes you're fat.


She was not amused. ;)
 

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Thanks guys. Definitely some good advice. I'll try out some it this soon.
 
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