"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The fat question

Frank_Tartaglia

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I've noticed that women often ask if I think that they are fat. I can't figure out why women ask questions like these or what type of response I should give.

Out of all the women who've asked me I didn't think any of them were fat and I said that. Should I have handled things differently?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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theunflushables

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Its a self esteem booster. Women are conscious about their weight. All their damn magazines are filled with these skinny supermodels they know they will never be and it makes them feel fat.

And yes you are answering the question correctly.
 

theunflushables

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Proselytiser said:
The fat question is a total mind****! Just NEXT the sorry little *****!
If he does that he'll next every woman in existence. I have yet to meet a woman who hasn't asked if she's fat. Its like some secret universal constant.

The day we make alien contact I am sure one of the first questions asked by the female of the alien species is "Am I fat?"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Proselytiser

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Really? Current girlfriend has NEVER asked me if I think she's fat or not. She has mentioned her weight once or twice (in over two years) but only 'I should probably exercise a bit more' which she then went and did.

There are girls out there that don't ask this, whether or not there's more who ask the fat question in America (I'm in Australia) I don't know...
 

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I'd give an honest answer. Because I'm nice like that.

But - protip: don't be too blunt about it. And if they're saying that they want to lose weight, but you don't see any need, say something like: "I think you're quite fine as you are, but if you want to tone up then sure, I'll be behind you".
 

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I was asked by my female friend once, and I told her she was fat(She is 5'0 180 lbs).


She liked my honesty and agreed she needed to lose weight.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Nexus Polaris

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I typically respond with, "Oh hell yeah!"

If she's got a sense of humor, she'll laugh. If not, she will usually cry and/or hit me with something. Either way, she has proven whether or not she is worth my time.
 

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A girl asked me that once.

Warrior74, do you think I'm fat?

Are you hungry?

No.

Then yes you're fat.


She was not amused. ;)
 

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Thanks guys. Definitely some good advice. I'll try out some it this soon.
 
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