Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Women have ways to make themselves more attractive in ways men do not(or, makeup, nails, hair, etc...).
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
if women. have so many advantages, why do they complain so much about not being able to find anyone.. esp the vast majority or women who are 40?
Well, we're talking about dating, so I'm talking about dating aged girls. They have the advantage - if they decide to use those years to ho it up and squander their advantage, that's their problem.
AND since the government will take the role of Protector and Provider, AND because she now has more opportunity than ever before to Provide for herself, she needs the commitment even less. At times in the past, her very survival depended on that commitment.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Go to any nightclub on a Saturday night the vast majority of women in there couldn't care less if they get laid , yea some may be ovulating and will be down for some D but they ain't usually chasing it
The men on the other hand are usually lurking in corners creeping or running around like headless chickens trying to get laid
I know that game and I play it back. Girls playing chicken with me. I simply don't give them the attention at all cause I know they have three men on speedial and a boyfriend providing for them. I'm the prize and I can sustain ****ing them longer than the typical man. Though my plates are slim atm, I'm not even pursuing women like before since I've been progressing in my career. The women naturally are being drawn to me.Women are advantaged because there is a much much greater demand from men for sex
That dynamic alone means that women can to some extent sit back and let the game unfold a bit before making a decision on that male
Go to any nightclub on a Saturday night the vast majority of women in there couldn't care less if they get laid , yea some may be ovulating and will be down for some D but they ain't usually chasing it
The men on the other hand are usually lurking in corners creeping or running around like headless chickens trying to get laid
now as for how this translates into the dating market - in any form of negotiation the party who wants less than the other is in the seat of power
Women can afford to be fussier than men because they know most men want what's between their legs more than she wants commitment
It's OVER for Sub5Cels.